Infertility Therapists in Scottsdale, AZ
Infertility Counseling
Infertility counseling is available to Scottsdale individuals and couples at Biltmore Psychology & Counseling. Our licensed psychologists and counselors work with people through fertility treatment, pregnancy loss, and the strain infertility places on a relationship, using Emotionally Focused Therapy and grief-informed individual work. Sessions are available in person at our office near Biltmore Fashion Park and online anywhere in Arizona. Free 10-minute consultation: (480) 999-7070.
Infertility is one of the more isolating things a person can go through, partly because so much of it happens privately and partly because the people around you often don’t know what to say. Stress, anxiety, depression, guilt and anger are all common, and they can strain even a strong relationship and make it hard to be kind to yourself or your partner, especially since the two of you are likely to experience the process differently. A counselor gives each of you room to say what this has been like and tools to communicate better through it, and we encourage couples to come early, so expectations and disappointments can be worked through together rather than carried alone. If you’re struggling with the emotional weight of infertility, call us at (480) 999-7070.
Visit In Person
Our office is at 6245 N 24th Parkway near 24th Street and Camelback, next to Biltmore Fashion Park, about 20 minutes west of Old Town Scottsdale on Camelback Road.
We See Clients From:
- Old Town
- Arcadia
- McCormick Ranch
- Gainey Ranch
- North Scottsdale
- DC Ranch
- Grayhawk
For Individuals and Couples
Infertility Counseling for Scottsdale Clients
Stress, anxiety, grief, guilt and anger are all common when you’re going through infertility. Those feelings can strain even a strong relationship and make it hard to be kind to yourself or your partner, especially when the two of you experience it differently.
We see individuals and couples, and either is a good way to start. Couples work focuses on the places where distress, misunderstanding or distance have crept in, and individual work gives you space to process loss, confusion and stress. Clients come to our Camelback office from Old Town, McCormick Ranch and North Scottsdale, and we fit sessions around a treatment cycle rather than fighting it.
The aim is for you to feel steadier, more connected and better able to talk about what this has been like. If the relationship strain is the most pressing part, couples counseling speaks to that directly, and if this journey has included a loss, grief counseling may be the better start, alongside everything else we offer in Scottsdale.
Online sessions are available to any Arizona resident, which can matter during an active treatment cycle when monitoring appointments already fill the calendar. Partners can join from separate locations, and you can meet more often in the hard weeks and less in between. Schedule an online session to get started.
Meet Dr. Melissa Estavillo
Psy.D. Clinical Psychology,
Arizona School of Professional Psychology
M.A. Clinical Psychology,
Arizona School of Professional Psychology
B.S. Psychology,
Grand Canyon University
Specialties:
General Counseling
Couples Counseling
Medical Counseling
Faith and Spiritual Counseling
LGBTQ+
Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT)
Infertility & Stress
Research by Dr. Alice Domar found that women experiencing infertility reported anxiety and depression levels comparable to those of women diagnosed with cancer, heart disease or HIV.
That finding matters for a practical reason: it reframes the distress as a proportionate response to a genuinely serious situation rather than as an overreaction, which is what a great many people going through this have quietly concluded about themselves.
Start your journey with confidence
In a free, no-obligation 10-minute consultation we can tell you whether our services are the right fit for where you are.
Our licensed clinicians support Scottsdale individuals and couples through infertility, in person at our Biltmore-area office and online throughout Arizona.
Start your journey with confidence
In a free, no-obligation 10-minute consultation we can tell you whether our services are the right fit for where you are.
Our licensed clinicians support Scottsdale individuals and couples through infertility, in person at our Biltmore-area office and online throughout Arizona.
Infertility Counseling FAQ
When should you see an infertility counselor?
Infertility can be a time that bonds a relationship and helps the couple feel close, yet for many, this stressful time is one that can pull them apart. Below are a few signs that you should seek an infertility counselor:
- Intimacy is replaced with only “procreation sex”
- Arguments are increasing around how infertility should be addressed
- The couple cannot agree on when/if to pursue assisted reproductive technology to form a family
- Either partner is feeling anxious, depressed or despair
- Infertility is taking over the couple’s life
- The couple is lacking support from friends or family who understand their stress
Any one of these is reason enough. You do not need to be in crisis to benefit from having somewhere to put this.
What Can You Expect from Infertility Counseling?
Couples counseling for infertility will focus on identifying the places in the relationship that are causing distress, misunderstanding, or feelings of distance. At times of difficult decisions, it will focus on helping the couple express their needs, fears, and desires while also listening to the other partner’s perspectives.
If infertility has caused places of pain in the relationship, the focus will be to help the couple repair their relationship and feel supported by the other. Individual counseling for infertility will help the individual process through negative feelings of loss, grief, anger, confusion, and stress related to the process.
How does infertility affect a relationship?
Infertility is an inherently stressful process. Couples experiencing infertility go through grief, shame, self-blame, financial stress, scheduling stress, information overload, and despair. In fact, research by Dr. Alice Domar shows that a woman going through infertility is as stressed as a woman diagnosed with stage 3 breast cancer.
Numerous big decisions and disappointments can stress even the best of relationships, leaving many feeling misunderstood and unsupported. Couples can benefit from infertility counseling when the stress on the relationship reaches a tipping point and is starting to drive a wedge in the relationship. Yet, couples can also benefit from infertility counseling when they are first faced with infertility as a way to help them stay close through each decision and hard moment.
Further reading: How Infertility Can Impact a Relationship
Can I Come for Infertility Counseling Without My Partner?
Yes. Individual counseling for infertility will help the individual process through negative feelings of loss, grief, anger, confusion and stress related to the process.
What other services do you offer in the Scottsdale area?
We see Scottsdale clients for couples counseling, grief counseling, anxiety counseling, depression counseling, marriage counseling and family counseling, among others. Many people working through infertility find that more than one of these is relevant at different points, and everything else we offer locally in Scottsdale starts with the same free consultation.
Our counselors are held to the highest standards of excellence and bring the best of their education, experience, and professional knowledge to their practice. Counseling at BPC is a dynamic, active process, and counselors work with each person to understand, engage, and overcome even seemingly insurmountable difficulties.
Do you have an infertility counselor near Scottsdale?
Our office is in Phoenix at 6245 N 24th Parkway, near 24th Street and Camelback beside Biltmore Fashion Park, about 20 minutes from Old Town Scottsdale on Camelback Road. We have served the Scottsdale area since 2012, and we also offer online sessions to any Arizona resident.
Can we do infertility counseling online if we live in Scottsdale?
Yes. Online sessions are available to any Arizona resident, individually or as a couple. For people in an active treatment cycle this is often the practical option, because it fits around monitoring appointments and does not add another drive to a week that already has several. You can also mix formats. Call (480) 999-7070 to arrange it.
How much does infertility counseling cost, and do you take insurance?
Biltmore Psychology & Counseling is an out-of-network provider and does not bill insurance directly. If your plan includes out-of-network mental health benefits, we provide a receipt you can submit to your insurer for reimbursement, and many clients are reimbursed for a portion of each session.
Fees vary by clinician and by the type of session, so call (480) 999-7070 and we will give you the current rate before you book anything.
Meet Our Team
Dr. Melissa Estavillo
Psy.D. Clinical Psychology,
Arizona School of Professional Psychology
M.A. Clinical Psychology,
Arizona School of Professional Psychology
B.S. Psychology,
Grand Canyon University
Dr. Linda DeBiase
Forest Institute of Professional Psychology, Doctorate in Clinical Psychology
Lake Forest College
B.A. Psychology
California School of Professional Psychology,
Clinical Psychology
Dr. Nikki Kemper
Psy.D. Clinical Psychology,
Midwestern University
Masters in Clinical Psychology,
Midwestern University
Dr. Cynthia Regardie
Psy.D. Clinical Psychology,
Rosemead School of Psychology
M.A. Clinical Psychology,
Rosemead School of Psychology
B.A. Psychology,
University of California, Irvine
Nicole Elliott, LPC, PMH-C
M.C. Counseling,
Arizona State University
B.A. English (Literature),
Arizona State University
Elizabeth Felix, LPC
M.A. Professional Counseling, Ottawa University
M.A. Human Resources and Substance Abuse,
Ottawa University
B.A. Psychology,
Ottawa University
Laura Reed, LPC
M.S. Professional Counseling,
Grand Canyon University
B.S. Psychology,
Grand Canyon University
Rebecca Fregoso, LPC
M.S. Counseling,
University of Phoenix
B.A. Psychology,
California State University
Kirsten Eby, LPC, ATR-BC
M.S. Art Therapy Counseling
Southern Illinois University, Edwardsville
M.A. Teaching, Elementary
American University
B.A. Psychology & Sociology
Tulane University
Dr. Melissa Estavillo
Psy.D. Clinical Psychology, Arizona School of Professional Psychology M.A. Clinical Psychology, Arizona School of Professional Psychology B.S. Psychology, Grand Canyon University
Dr. Linda DeBiase
Forest Institute of Professional Psychology, Doctorate in Clinical Psychology Lake Forest College, B.A. Psychology California School of Professional Psychology, Clinical Psychology
Dr. Nikki Kemper
Psy.D. Clinical Psychology, Midwestern University Masters in Clinical Psychology, Midwestern University
Dr. Cynthia Regardie
Psy.D. Clinical Psychology,
Rosemead School of Psychology
M.A. Clinical Psychology,
Rosemead School of Psychology
B.A. Psychology,
University of California, Irvine
Nicole Elliott, LPC PMH-C
M.C. Counseling, Arizona State University B.A. English (Literature), Arizona State University
Elizabeth Felix, LPC
M.A. Professional Counseling, Ottawa University M.A. Human Resources and Substance Abuse, Ottawa University B.A. Psychology, Ottawa University<
Laura Reed, LPC
M.S. Professional Counseling, Grand Canyon University B.S. Psychology, Grand Canyon University
Rebecca Fregoso, LPC
M.S. Counseling, University of Phoenix, B.A. Psychology, California State University
Kirsten Eby, LPC, ATR-BC
M.S. Art Therapy Counseling Southern Illinois University, Edwardsville M.A. Teaching, Elementary American University B.A. Psychology & Sociology Tulane University
Our Location Near Scottsdale, AZ
We see Scottsdale clients at our Phoenix office beside Biltmore Fashion Park, at 24th Street and Camelback. From Scottsdale Road it is a direct drive west on Camelback Road, about 20 minutes from Old Town. Parking is available on site. Online sessions are open to any Arizona resident.
Biltmore Psychology and Counseling
Address:
6245 N 24th Parkway, Suite #106 Phoenix, Arizona 85016
Phone:
Hours:
Monday – Friday, 9:00 am – 5:00 pm